You can't make people understand what you feel
You can't make them feel what you feel
Not even if they feel something similar to what you feel
Then will they understand not in the way you understand but in the reinterpretation of the words you have spoken to them will they understand.
I think knowledge is filtered, it wont be exactly what you put out, what you put out will be mixed with the other persons perspective, experience, values, beliefs, feelings. Its never pure.
And assumptions, i wish you'd tell me what you feel even if i can't change it, even if i might repel it, i should know not for my sake but for your sake. Cause as quiet as silence it, its destructive in certain situations. Its a path to more emotions.
If i were in love, i would want my lover to say all he wants to say, i would say all i wanted to say. I wouldn't withhold anything cause all he lives on are assumptions and all i live on are assumptions. He can't read my mind and I can't read his mind. I might say, he loves me he should know, he should understand. He might say, she loves me, she should know she should understand. But I don't know and i don't understand and its selfish that I'd think so and he'd think so. Cause how will I know if you never tell me.
Talk to me everytime, even if i have no words to say how I feel, I would say so. If you looked at me a certain way, i would say it, if I in a moment fall in love with you in that moment, I would say so, if I in a moment want to be away from you...
