Word Vomit

Grow Up

To Little Sister:
Look, I'm done babying you. I'm done telling you that it's okay when it's not. I'm not gonna pity you because you brought this on yourself. You need to grow up and start taking responsibility for your actions. This has become a cycle with you. You get in a relationship, then you screw around and do something you regret the next day, and you tell him and he shuts you out. Because guess what? You hurt him. And it's no ones fault but your own. And you can be pissed at me for saying so, but you need to wake up and realize that the world does not revolve around you and if you don't stop to think before you do something that will hurt him, you don't get to play the victim. And don't you dare tell me that I know nothing because you've been in more relationships than you. I've still been here longer. I've seen countless relationships, I've lived through heartbreak and mistakes with my friends. You act so grown up, but you never take responsibility for things. I don't care if you hate me for this and tell me to shut up. I'm not going to lie to you and say that it's not your fault! You don't get to play the victim when you put yourself in these situations. No one forces you to have a wandering eye. No one forces you to cheat. That's on you. And you will suffer the consequences and you won't have anyone to blame but yourself. Someday, he'll walk away because you never learned. He'll walk away just like C did. And I know that's not what you want to hear but it's the truth and if you can't accept that, then you shouldn't be dating him. The truth hurts. Deal with it.

Love,
Mack