Random thoughts

Trust

What will come into your mind, when you hear this word "TRUST".

From whom do we expect trust?
From which relationship can we expect trust?

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For me trust is the base of each and every relationship. Without trust any relationship can not last longer according to me. A relationship can survive without trust but there may never be a whole truthfulness, faithfulness. Many relationships survive without love but without trust, there is no future of a happy forever relationship. We leave in a place where mostly relationships are not broken just because of society or we can say for the so called society OR just for their children.

The very first relation which we get once we come into this world is our Family, our parents, our siblings. There is always a give and take in everything. So when we trust a person, we show that trust which means we are giving a thing. Being a human, it is a human tendency to expect things, so when we give trust we expect to receive the same too.

Is it selfishness?

I don't think so...mostly we have heard that when we love someone we cannot expect the person to love us the same. Many say that, that is true love. It might or might not be a right..... Some other time we can discuss that but here in trust we can not hope for the same.

Next to family, comes our friends and colleagues. There too we are facing the same, other that family that is the very first time we start to trust new people apart for our family. So trust plays a major role. That's the phase when we start experiencing many new things like going out, sharing things with those who are not our family or not from our family. Some may gain great friend through this phase and some may also face failures due to lack of trust.

The stage which comes next is "marriage".
Some are love and some are arranged marriage. This is the most important phase of life when completely different people from two different worlds come together and start living their life together.

Here is a small suggestion for those who are reading this
In LOVE MARRIAGE, we definitely know each other that's why they decide to marry and spend their whole life with each other --- AGREED
But you guys used to love each other when you were in the comfort given by your parents. That when you guys felt we are good for each other when majority of the time you spend is with your family. So when ever you guys got time, you guys were in your own world, which is also known as dreamland.

So when you guys leave together after marriage, you guys have to come out of your comfort zone and take responsibility of the family too... Which is expected by our families too because they think that when you guys are ready for marriage means yoh guys are ready for the responsibility after the marriage too which is so true too. When we face the harsh reality the comfort zone bubble breaks, we come out of the dreamland.

So when you guys get married, take time and start exploring this married phase also in knowing each other more. No one is running out that you want to know each and everything that fast. Enjoy the time, spend more time with family and get to know more about each other's family. Once you gain the trust between each other than go into the parental phase which is good for the family and the future of a lovely happily ever after life too.

In ARRANGED MARRIAGE, definitely you guys are unknown to each other, so after getting engaged many people start to know about each other but that's not at all enough and consummating the marriage in the first night itself is a complete stupidity. People makes society not the other way. After a time span of 3-4 months of marriage the so called society starts asking about good news. So many due to this question, consummate their marriage and give birth to a new life without knowing about each other. Under the burden of society people, does not think about the life which they are bringing into the world.

We are humans with different thought process, different style of living coming from different mindsets. So it is expected to have misunderstandings, problems between couples but trusting each other and supporting each other make the bond strong. Once the bond is strong, you guys trust each other with yourselves than you are ready for the parental phase.

Without trusting without loving each other when a couple raises a child, that child suffers. Many children might have felt that what kind of life they are living and never and ever a parent wants their child to say something like this.

Being a child is a blessing, the childhood is a heavenly experience. Never let your trust issues make your child's life a curse.

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