Will You Ever Notice?

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Will You Ever Notice?

Hey, it's Hannah!

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This has been quite a ride! Thank you for riding it with me.

I learned more about friendship and love while I was writing WYEN.

Friendship.

If you're part of a circle that you think you don't fit in, that's completely normal. I, myself, had experienced that for so long.

May mga pagkakataong hindi natin nafi-feel na nagfi-fit in tayo because we fail to communicate better with our friends. Sa ganitong pagkakataon, let's try to communicate with our friends better. Baka kasi akala natin, nagfe-fail na 'yung pagkakaibigan pero ang totoo pala, kailangan lang natin na kausapin sila nang mas maayos at sabihin sa kanila kung ano ang problema.

Pero may mga pagkakataon ding hindi effective kahit na sinubukan nating mag-reach out to the point na nagiging toxic na sa atin ang pagkakaibigan. If that's the case for you, I hope Zen was able to teach you that you need the right environment for you to grow. Isipin natin, kung isa tayong leon tapos sa ilalim tayo ng tubig palalakihin. We wouldn't last a day because it's not the place for us.

It's fine to cut people who you think damages a part of you. Hindi pagiging masama 'yon. Be good to yourself. Hindi itinuro sa'tin na mahalin natin nang higit sa sarili natin ang ibang tao. Itinuro sa atin na tulad ng pagmamahal natin sa sarili, mahalin natin ang kapwa natin.

Kung masyado na tayong nasasaktan at nahihirapan, 'wag nating hintayin na maubos tayo dahil sa puntong 'yon dadating ang galit at panghihinayang.

Naranasan ko 'yong hindi ako nagfi-fit in sa mga naging kaibigan ko to the point na parati akong nananalangin dati na sana, bigyan ako ng mga kaibigang para sa'kin talaga. Akala ko noon, may mali sa'kin kasi pakiramdam ko, iba ako kaysa sa kanila.

But when God answered my prayers and gave me the people who get my tweaks and flaws, naintindihan ko na tulad ng sa pag-ibig, may mga tao rin talagang inilaan para maging kaibigan natin.

At habang sinusulat ko ang WYEN, na-realize ko na hindi ko sinubukan noon sa mga dati kong kaibigan na maging totoo sa nararamdaman ko. Hindi ko sinabi sa kanila nang direkta kung kailan pakiramdam ko, nasasaktan nila ako o nadi-disappoint ako. And I'm thankful that I started to realize that now.

Now, I'm with a set of friends that I feel like I belong and I pray that you'd find yours too.

Love.

WYEN made me realize how I should find the right guy for me.

We have a lot of Seve in this world.

'Wag tayong padadala lang sa damdamin. Piliin natin 'yung taong sa tingin natin, mamahalin tayo nang kung paano dapat tayo mahalin.

Don't lower your standards. The moment you compromise, baka dahil hawak na natin 'yung bagay na pinili natin kasi nagmadali tayo, hindi na natin mahawakan 'yung high standard na gustong ibigay sa'tin ni Lord. Patience.

Don't settle for an immediate answer. Hintayin natin 'yung tamang sagot nang may pagpapasensya. Kasi kung pipiliin mo 'yung madaliang sagot at mali pala, nag-aksaya ka lang ng effort, emosyon, at panahon. Pa'no kung tamang sagot kahit na matagal? Hindi ba mas precious, special, and worth it?

'Wag nating bigyan ang pagkakataon na saktan tayo nang paulit-ulit kung puwede namang hintayin natin ang tamang tao na magpaparamdam sa'tin no'ng pagmamahal na gusto nating makuha.

We have different opinions but I hope you got something out of Zenica and Lael. I learned so much from them and this story owned a special place in my heart.

Thank you for being with me! I hope to see you in the next stories that I'd focus on.

Thank you for reading! Follow me on Twitter: @overthingkingpen

God bless you and may the love of God overflow in your heart. ♥️

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Will You Ever Notice?
by overthinkingpen

Year ended: December 27, 2020

I dedicate this book to those who are
in the season of waiting. I wish for
your patience and may the love
of God fill the emptiness
in your heart. Wait
patiently. It will
be worth it.

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WHAT'S NEXT?

War Has Begun
(War Series #1)

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@overthingkingpen

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