Heyy
See how I just updated 2 days in a row I'm a changed writer 😌 after saying this watch me never update again🤣
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Ngl to you guys I may not be the best person for this as I've just started to find myself but here's somethings that I think may help 🙂
STOP FOCUSING ON THE APPROVAL OF OTHERS
Once you've got this down I feel like the rest will come easier.This was one of the hardest for me personally cause I always had that need to be accepted by other cause I didn't wanna be an outcast but as I've gotten older I've come to the conclusion that the more you pretend the less happier you'll become sooo fuck them and do your own thing 😙✌️and the people who actually care about you will accept this
FIND YOUR HAPPY PLACE
For me listen to music is 1000% my happy place. If you don't get what I mean by 'happy place' I mean a place where you feel content and at peace despite everything going on. Your happy place can be absolutely anything such as reading a book//sleeping(this is one of my personal favourites😂) even baking.
TAKE A LOOK AT YOURSELF
For this one you have to just say what you like about yourself (ngl this was a hard one for me as I'm quite insecure) it doesn't have to be physical attributes it can be anything.This step is really important as a positive mindset is key to finding yourself 😊
TRY NEW THINGS
How are you gonna find yourself if you ain't willing to be adventurous?? Doing this will put you outside of your comfort zone but sometimes it's for the best as you could end up finding something you love or are really good at (I recently joined my schools debate team and it's surprisingly fun and it's helped me meet a lot of new people 😁) sooo don't hold yourself back with this one
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self-care tips
Randomjust some advice to deal with problems, if you have any suggestions on what i should do feel free to dm me 😌✌🏾
