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*in a comment on a story*
“noo but it’s such a ‘screaming and fighting.. it’s 2am and im cursing your name’ vibe!! and i LOVE it!”
that is suuuuch a romanticized view of a draining and conflicting relationship??? like i can understand that taylor wrote it bc ofc there was nostalgia for what was familiar... but for random people to use those lines AS VIBES????? AS IF ITS CUTE???? now, THAT is romanticization. branding fighting and screaming ‘vibes’ as “sparks” or anything remotely romantic, and (seemingly) actively seeking that toxicity is not only weird but fucking disgusting and naive.