@JuliePham246
Hey @JuliePham246 just like everyone else, I have come for advice. There is this guy that I like. I've known him for about two years and he does look at me when he does something ridiculous, and I had a great conversation with him yesterday when he just didn't respond, and today when I texted him, he didn't respond. Please help me!
hi. so like alot of other people who have private messaged you, im looking for advice. i have been BFFs with this guy for about two years and i have a huge crush on him. so last night i decided to text him, and i asked if he liked me after saying i liked him, and he diddint respond for a bit so i said, "dont like me? its okay" and he said "no, its not that i dont like you" and i said "like someone else? its okay" and he said "no" and then he said "its just that i dont really like anyone right now" and then i completely FREAKED and said my friend dared me to say that and i am very confused rn. should i just flat out tell him again, or should i just pretend that never happened. does he even like me!! halp!!
@puppylover948 thank you for takig the time to respond. this advice definetley helped me
@puppylover948 Well I mean of he doesn't really like anyone at the moment then there's a perfect chance for you. Since you've already asked him and whatnot you can just tell him again. Or fully tell him straight out the truth clearly so he understands what your intentions are. The best case scenario you both get together, of you two don't well it's not the end of the world. You two are still able to forget it and continue to become friends if that's the case. But I'm pretty sure you'll do fine.
Hiiii so I have a crush on this guy for like 2 months, then I asked him if who he likes is and he said that he doesn't wanna tell me and I asked him why tho and he just told me that if he told me who he likes is then so his crush will find out who he likes is but then after like 5 mins ago my crush whisperd something to my best friend and after that I asked my BFF if what's the topic all about and she just told me that it's about his crush and I asked her if who is it and she told me that " *name of my crush* told me to do not tell it to you or his crush will find out " and now it's making me so confuse but he's trying to give a clue like tall, a year older than him or a bit chubby and etc. And whice are applied to me, does he like me????????
Sorry for my grammar tho I'm Japanese
@airinharadachan There could be a possibility he does like you since he won't tell you. Plus the things he had said applied to you. Maybe talk to him more and him feel comfortable with and maybe even if you feel like it confess to him as well.
Hi. The books you wrote are really lovely.
But.. i have a crush in this guy I don’t know that well. We are not friends and we don’t have common friends. We only have 1 subject together and we sit next to each other. He doesn’t really speak to me, like at all, not unless the teacher asks us to work together (which happens quite often, all my love goes to my teacher).
However, when he does speak to me, he is always really fidgety, and he either looks me right in the eyes when he talks to me or other times he will look at me and then look somewhere else a few times throughout the conversation. And, most times though not always, he will have a smile in his face when he talks to me but it then goes away when we are done talking.
I tried initiating conversation a few times but it didn’t go past “is this your last lesson of the day -yes”.
I don’t know if he likes me or if he cannot stand me.
Thank you.
@cristinadobanda Well honestly what I can say about this is try and talk to him more ask questions and whatnot. Try and become friendly with him and make yourself seem open and comfortable around him so then he might also be comfortable around you as well. If it doesn't work maybe ask him if he dislikes you or something then maybe you'll get your answer. Either that or might give up on him if he doesn't initiate back then don't waste your time on him.
Hi!
So I’ve had a crush on this guy for a while and I really wanna know if he like me or not
He;
-asks to use my glasses a lot
-worries if I’m hurt and will come over to me
-smiles or laughs when I make a joke
-looks at me sometimes
-stares at me during lunch
He also;
-makes fun of my shoes
-calls my sister a boy
-will ignore me for up to a week or two
-calls me fat when I’m only 92 lbs
I really want to know if he like me or is just being mean I really like him please help me
ALSO I’ve had this question for soooo long. Do guys like girls who wear comfy clothes with Corp tips or girls who dress to impress and wear nicer clothes?
@SmolY00ngi Well it seems like he likes you since he does all of these things. Even if he does act a bit cold or mean some guys do that since they don't know how to Express themselves. If you feel hurt from the comments he makes you can tell him straight up that you're uncomfortable and offended by them. If he cares enough then he'll stop making those mean statements. Well with the outfit choices I'm not really sure. Depends on how it looks on the girl and what the guy is into. If the guy truly likes a girl he won't really mind or care what the girl is wearing. He'll still feel attracted either way.
Hey, it's me again.
I kinda sad about my boyfriend. My boyfriend is really good in art , I heard before that he said to me that he want to post his art in online but I never seen one that he post his art so I ask him when will he post his art in online and he replied that he been busy so since he is busy , I help him post his art at my story but not just his art, I post my art too. Then I told him that so many people like his art than me. My boyfriend said that he is not normal that I post his art , he want me ask his permission first. Then my niece text me just now that my boyfriend was texted her, my niece said that my boyfriend told her that he is uncomfortable about I post his art and he start to feel unsafe with me.
I just wanna help him but I wonder why he didn't talk with me, I meant we can talk about it but why he have to text my niece?
Im scared that I will losing him.
Do you know what that mean?
@Arifuzika Well to make this type of relationship to work is that both of you will have to have communication. So both have of you to have to talk thing out with each other. I understand you wanted to help him out with his art but it's his own stuff it's best if you ask him first before doing that. Talk to him about how you want to help him as much as possible. If he's busy or what not give him space but let him know that you care and appreciate him.
Hey it me again,
This one is wasn't for me, it for my niece,
She had a crush from her class mate, but the guy rarely come to school because he had family problem so my niece try to comfort him but she didn't know how. Maybe you know how to comfort a guy and thank you for helping me alot.
@Arifuzika How to comfort a guy? Well that's normal. Just do what you'd normally do for a friend. Listen to their problems, give them advice when needed. Let them know it's going to be okay, let them know you'll be there for him. Let him know if he needs anything then he come come to you for the support. Just comfort him that it'll be okay.
Hey, it me again
I have huge problems, there is one guy, I met him in pubg but I never never met him face to face. The said that he like me. I thought it was a joke so I say no. Then he text me and we had alot of convercation , until he said that I was his dream girl and he really want to marry me but I said I can't because I already have a boyfriend but he still saying he want to marry me. The reasons why I have to reject him, 1. I already have a boyfriend
2. We are not same country
3. I'm 17 years old and he 18 years old ( young age can't marry)
4. We just know each other
So if you know how to reject that really work, please tell me. I really need it. I don't want to get marry, I have to achieve my dream. So please let me know okey?
@Arifuzika Seriously just continue rejecting him. If he continues like this then block him or whatnot. Cause he's honestly really desperate for someone, I wouldn't trust him at all.
Hey, it me again.
How to make that I'm exist to a guy I like?
Don't think I'm playgirl.
It just... I want to thank him that he reason I want to study hard and move on.
Do you know how?
@Arifuzika If you love H more than your boyfriend maybe you want to be with him then your bf. Maybe tell H about your feelings and maybe talk to your boyfriend. Figure out what YOU want to do. Do you want to be with H more than your boyfriend. Do you think it'll work better with H instead? Figure out what you want, and what seems the best for you and what relationship would work so much better. That it won't make you suffer than you already are. You have to make the decision and figure out what is right for you
@Arifuzika I mean you could talk to him and tell him how he means to you or just move on in general. It depends if you want to do it or not.
Lol sorry
Actually, there was one guy I had crush on, before my boyfriend and I are become lover. When I see his face, he make me move on and make me study harder. But he didn't know I was exist, maybe if wasn't him, I might be clueless. Now he with someone else but at least I wanna say thank you to him and at least I wanna know am I exist to him?
Okey, I got it but... I ask your opinion. Last time me and my boyfriend was broke up because I don't want my parents found out about our relationship then he was speechless and he said we can talk about this so I told him that want to protect him. He said he had a crush on me 3 years ago and he love me because he think I'm cool, friendly, kind, I like smile to everyone and I like his drawing. So in your opinion, do you think he love just the way I am and is he gonna stay by my side?
@Arifuzika Well yeah if hes saying things about and that he cares about and what not then yes. It seems like he wants to stay with you. I will wouldn't know since I'm not him. You need to trust him and understand what you and him wants.