both kinds of Marriage

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No matter what kind of marriage it is you won't be happy at all. arranged marriages will either result in separation/divorce and or not given an chance to fall in love.arranged marriages give parents the opportunity for showcasing their daughter or son's marriage status in front of their relatives,  friends, neighbors, and society in general. oh yeh dekho saade kudi  or munda da viah hogaya aur hum ne viah arrange kiya hai. parading him or her like an OBJECT. Soon, they are asked by their parents to have kids, start an family, and give them grandkids. Love marriages are the same exact situation except for the arranged part. Yeah some might disagree with me but who has ever been happy in an love marriage? Sure there's the love but parents will still be dominating the marriage by asking over and over again when will you two start an family(same like the arranged marriage) or the parents don't like the person whom you married. let's look at some examples:

1)  Let's say you love someone and decided to get married to them thus making it an love marriage so you have your parents and family  meet the person and they approve.Next you get married and then you start to become distant. distant is key when it comes to wanting to get separated or getting divorce wasn't it better to stay unmarried?

2) Now let's say you don't love anyone yet but are at an marriage age then the next thing you know your parents have decided within themselves find you an suitor or suitee is that even an word? the outcome will be the same you will end up getting married on their say so and regret it for the rest of your life.

Given these examples it should be an good reason to be in an live in relationship than ever getting married at all!!!

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