What Boys Loves In A Girl

#16 Crushing

Everyone has a crush before. Even as a kid we have a crush. Crushing on someone can be a short period of time or even last long like years.

Here are tips what to do and not to do.

The 5 big mistakes to avoid when your crush is around

1. Don't tell them you like them.

2. Don't be too easy

3. Don't stalk your crush.

4. Don't keep looking at your crush.

5. Don't be idle around your crush.

The three stages of getting a crush to like you

1. Get their attention

2. Build the chemistry

3. Initiate a conversation

8 ways to get your crush's attention

1. The world revolves around you.

2. Fleeting glances

3. Show off what you're good at.

4. Show off your kind side.

5. Be a happy person.

6. Smell great.

7. Look good around your crush.

8. Look approachable.

6 ways to build chemistry and get your crush to like you

If you've used the tips to get your crush's attention, your crush would definitely have taken notice of you. And in a good way too!

Now you need to focus on building the chemistry, and psychologically convince them to believe that they're the one who's actually getting a crush on you!

#1 Smile to yourself. Stare discreetly at your crush for less than a second and look away as soon as you catch their eye. And just smile to yourself and get busy doing something. Don't stretch your smile into a big grin, instead smile just a little bit like you had a funny thought.

Smiling too hard makes it seem like you're really excited to catch your crush's eye, and that's never good. You just need to build the chemistry, not make it obvious that you're head over heels in love!

#2 Gather your information. Get to know your crush better. It's always exciting and fun to dig information about a crush, so go and do just that. Ask a common friend about your crush without making it obvious that you've got something on your mind.

Get the little details that matter, like what your crush likes and dislikes, what they do over the weekend, or whether they like or dislike smokers, etc. It always helps when you know what works and doesn't work while impressing someone.

#3 Brush your crush up. Walk past your crush when both of you meet paths, and *accidentally* brush your shoulder gently while walking past them. Just make sure you're not being obvious or you'll come off as a very creepy person.

#4 Use your P's and Q's. The best way to arouse a crush's curiosity and make them fall for you is by making yourself seem approachable, and yet walking away before they can do anything about it.

If you're walking past your crush, squeeze through near them and say "excuse me" and walk past them. And as you cross your crush, look straight into their eyes and smile just a little bit. And after walking past, turn around, say "thank you" and walk away. You'll drive your crush crazy, and make them want to trail you and talk to you!

#5 Stare at your crush. At this point of time, you need to make eye contact with your crush, and hold the gaze for longer than a second. You've built enough sexual chemistry to take this further. Stare at your crush for a second or two, and look away. Do that often as long as your crush is trying to look at you too. If your crush is busy or isn't reciprocating, don't try to catch their eye or you'll just end up losing all the chemistry you've built up.

#6 Play a secret game. You want your crush fall hard for you, but your intention isn't to make them realize you like them like crazy already. Avoid staring at your crush in front of their friends. By staring at your crush when everyone's watching, you'd be making it obvious to the world that you want to catch your crush's eye. And once your crush's friends see you trying to make eye contact, you'll make the staring game seem one sided.

Always be discreet when you have to make eye contact. The eye contact game has to feel like a secret thing going on between you and your crush, and no one should realize it other than your crush.

#7 Spread the word just a little. Talk to a common friend about your crush. Casually tell this friend that you find this guy or girl rather interesting. If this common friend of yours tries to prod you or dig further, tell your friend you notice this person *your crush* stare at you often, and you think they like you!

Your friend would definitely tease your crush about it, and tell your crush that you were interested in knowing more about them.

And by doing this, you're just turning the whole game around. You can actually make your crush believe that they're the one who's falling for you, and not the other way around. And before you know it, you can turn a one-sided crush into an infatuation from both sides!

Information from http://www.lovepanky.com/flirting-flings/get-flirty/how-to-get-your-crush-to-notice-you-and-like-you-back

Even guys have crush too and act differently when by their crush. Here is a guy's point of view.

Those stereotypical butterflies in the pit of your stomach - we all know the feeling. Ever since that first middle-school "relationship" that lasted two weeks and consisted of several flirty AIM conversations and one lunch period spent holding hands, we've all become familiar with the language of a crush.

But what about him? You probably know whenever your female friends have it bad for some guy (and all about how that gorgeous blue sweater he wore to physics class made his eyes sparkle), but have you ever wondered what goes on inside a guy's head when he's crushing on you?

Do college guys even get crushes, or are they just interested in hooking up?

The words "Oh my God, I have the biggest crush on ______" might not come out of his mouth, but crushing - in all its butterfly-inducing, tongue-tying glory - is not a gender-specific phenomena. Despite all the buzz about the college "hookup culture" slowly destroying relationships as we know them, almost half of the guys we talked to said they are frequently crushing on a girl. And that means actually liking the girl, not just thinking she's hot. "I think a lot of girls are hot, but I only get what I'd consider 'crushes' on the girls who I like as a person, too," says Max*, a senior at UNC-Chapel Hill.- hercampus.com

STUDIES

A comprehensive report released this week by researchers at Stanford University affirmed that everyone you've ever had a crush on in your entire life also secretly had a deep crush on you, they continue to hold these strong, unreconciled feelings, and they are out there right now, just waiting for you to get in touch with them.

According to the study, which analyzed the behavioral patterns and personal histories of both you and anyone you've been attracted to at any point in your life, every human being you've ever daydreamed about being with-from your grade school crush, to that upper class man in your college English class, to your old coworker-has quietly shared the same feelings, which they still have to this day, and are willing to drop everything on a moment's notice for the chance at spending the rest of their life with you. - theonion.com

"Based on a psychological study, a crush only lasts for a maximum of 4 months. If it exceeds, you are already in love."

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