You know what I've started to realize?
I have zero self control.
Absolutely none.
I usually say I'm good at hiding emotions,
But the truth is I don't control them.
They come when they want to
And hide when they choose.
I don't often cry in front of others.
You've seen me cry from a panic attack,
And from a song that hit too close to home,
And from being angry at myself at an archery competition.
But those weren't things I controlled.
And it doesn't go only one way,
Not being able to hold the tears when they come.
It goes both ways.
I can't cry when I want to.
When you were crying in my arms,
On my bed that day it was coming to an end,
I wanted to cry too.
I desperately wanted to.
Maybe if I could manage to cry,
You'd see how I was hurting,
And maybe I'd break and tell you everything.
But I couldn't.
I couldn't control it.
The tears wouldn't come,
And it made me look emotionless.
It made me look like I was
In total control of the situation,
When in reality,
I had never been so out of control.
Seems stupid, unrealistic, a lie.
How can one not be in control
Of the important decision they made?
And yes, I was the one who made that decision.
But it wasn't out of loss of feelings.
It was from the overwhelming feeling of fear,
And some half-assed explanations I put together
From previous moments and arguments.
I never lost the feelings.
I don't think they're something you can loose.
I think they get overpowered by something else,
And that power forces them down.
Or at least that's how I feel now.
Maybe we could have worked things out,
But it does no real use to dwell on the past.
I can't change it, no one can.
But I can however, try to regain
Some control over my actions,
And over my future.
I haven't been able to
Properly in the past,
But it doesn't mean I stop trying.
If I know one of my qualities,
Sometimes good and sometimes bad,
It's my stubbornness.
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The Healing Project
RomanceIF FOUND: Feel free to read, then please return to Luke Gray. This is Luke's private journal. The key contents? Pain, love, loss, and reflection. His message to the world: Remember, one decision changes everything. Follow him down a rabbit hole of t...