How would you define self harm, i would describe it as, people are trying to ignore what is going on in there life. Things like, problems at home, getting bullied you kind of get the picture. That's how i started cutting, i got bullied for my weight and my parents dont think to highly of me, I'm not saying Self harm is a good thing i have hurt a lot of people by doing it and lost alot of friends but i know im not the only one, but have you picked up the blade and wondered, of how many people you are hurting. They dont even have to know, but what if they found out, i bet they would be hurt, im not telling you to put the blade down just think about how many people you are hurting, i mean i thought about it and i quit for a while, but people started bullying me again so reverted back to it. I wish i hadn't though, but just think before you do it, that's all I ask
There is no shame of who you are, just remember that.