IMPORTANT ANNOUNCEMENT: hey everyone! I just want to apologize for the lack of updates. again. i’m just really going through some stuff rn and also i have to start packing to go back to my dorm in 2 weeks so there’s that. with that said, i have a serious question. i know i write about it in books but — can you guys tell me about the first time you found out you were in love with someone? like, the emotions, feelings, etc etc. i know it’s a silly question, but i’m genuinely curious as to what it feels like. (because i want to know if love is too big of a word to explain how i feel for someone or not)
@fhreyachaes Falling In love with a person is like taking a hit with an Unforgivable curse. I fell in love with this boy and whenever he would leave I felt so much pain hit me and when he would ignore me i would feel so depressed. I new I loved him but he would never love me. It's just how life is sometimes. Hoesntly that's how I would describe love it can be the most amazing feeling it the most unforgivable.
@ fhreyachaes I think that although the butterflies and the heart beating faster than usual are regular signs and everybody kind of knows that. In my experience, I felt that but I also felt like I fit in with the person perfectly, almost as though there was an instant connection between us and a feeling of trust mixed with desire too. Tbh I think that loving someone truly has more to do with the personality and also the soul. I'd say that if you feel like the person is a perfect fit and you can even live with their flaws... that is love. Because there's that, you must recognise the good and the bad in the person and if you still accept it and want to get even closer with the person, then probably it might be love. Anyway, at the end of the day, if it's love, you probably know, I don't know how to explain it but one just knows...
@fhreyachaes I feel like falling in love isn't about being nervous or having butterflies around someone, but it's more like fitting together like puzzle pieces or feeling at home with each other. You shouldn't feel nervous when you're with someone you love, because if you love each other, you shouldn't be scared of them. You should feel like family.