February ♒️
Formerly known as:
•Dolly217Baby
•ChicRuben
•BlaznRubenChic

Come as you are; be yourself...We may not vibe and still, there is no judgment.

I'm a grown woman, a lady, who still enjoys reading and writing! I've really enjoyed expanding my reading interests.

An introvert, I can be shy, but mostly quiet, observant, and aware. I'm comfortable alone but can be persuaded to interact in small and large groups.

A licensed social worker with a BA in Sociology and an MSW, or Master of Social Work- macro (administrative concentration).

My education, experience, and life has given me much needed objective and perspective.

I enjoy painting, sculpting, cooking, baking, traveling, discovering new interests, and spending time with family, friends, and loved ones. I like computer games, like on Pogo. Enjoy bowling, going to the range, miniature golf, music, movies, TV, streaming, pool, sometimes. Shopping is quite the vice. I used to be quite the sports enthusiast but, not so much now.

I love God, my family, friends, men of interest, and me 🖤

I'd like to learn new things, likely enrolling in a PhD program, in my field, and everything that tickles my creativity.

I'm rather girly, into fashion and looks of prior times. Not as much into make-up as I'd like to be. I'm eclectic and don't quite fit into one prescribed box. I'm an original; enjoying what I like and what likens itself to me.

I'm a creature of habit, who likes her creature comforts. I like new things but don't completely follow through- go figure!

"Bust before dusk means your virtue we cannot trust" (Whitley and Marian Gilbert, A Different World)

Art should comfort the disturbed and disturb the comfortable.
Cesar A. Cruz

Uncle Clifford's Rule #51,081
Don't try to be everybody's cup of tea, 'cause then you ain't even gon' have none to sip on for yourself

"I'm not one to judge but I will make an exception when it comes to someone who's judging me." (Henry 'Hank' Voight, Chicago PD)
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  • JoinedSeptember 26, 2019


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