My mate saved me from a lap dance
When Violet turned 18 her best friend Sarah decided to take her to a strip club, while being there she felt some weird connection, like a pull to someone but she couldn't pin point them out. When a drunken guy stumbled over to where Violet and Sarah, Violet freaked as this guy began giving her a lap dance she did not want. She fell out of her chair, as she wanted to get as far away from this guy as possible running and clinging onto some random guy. Convenient as it is, the random guy she clung to was her mate. She felt the sparks, she felt the butterflies and she felt the magnetic force pulling them together and knew that he was her mate.