ZIP UP! ANTIDOTE TO TEENAGE SEXUAL URGE
Sexual urge in the teenager is a normal experience. It is the biological metamorphosis from childhood to the adolescents. Like an infant who scampers from the mothers breasts, it becomes the mother's responsibility to control the baby's urge to suck. If at adolescents there is no urge for sex, there may be a danger ahead of such adolescents!
Urge for sex can as well be compared to a female adolescents who must experience her menstruation. It is a natural occurrence which if not experienced at a particular time in the female teenager will require medical attention.
There is therefore no doubt of the fact that teenagers must be well - educated on the matter of sex, why they must avoid it and how to avoid it, especially when it is of no physical and emotional benefit for their age.
There is the need to teach them how to abstain from sexual intercourse.
We are in the era of the use of the ICT and the use of social network sites is outrageous. They learn risky behaviours including sex and drug abuse via these medium. Parents are therefore worried about what the teens are divulging than what they are doing. Children now grow up faster than their age, while the adults remain perpetually kids!
Of course, the joy of all parents will be that their kids abstain from sex. Many teenagers simply succumb to peer pressure. Alternative to sex, such as masturbation, lesbianism, pornography, condom and sex toys, alcoholism, oral or anal sex definitely not the solution to sexual urge.
Research reveals these traits among the abstinent teenagers. Abstinence is associated with better physical and mental health. Teenagers who can abstain do better in school. They run a smooth and undistracted career race.
Students who abstain, attend and graduate from higher institutions with a better result more than the sexually active ones.
These hints will be very helpful to any teenager who can learn to practice them: