My experience of living the "adult life" - having a job and being more or less independent. There were things that no one told me about and there were things, about which I was told but I didn't believe, till they came true. Having said that, my experience is fairly positive, rather ordinary and I would never compare myself with those, who have gone through horrible events and tragedies in their lives. Note: I'm not a native English speaker, so I want to apologise in advance for any mistakes, which I may do. I would gladly accept corrections and suggestions about the content and the way it is written.