What I should get over is the fear of things that my head tells me - fear of judgement, and fear of things I think effect others but really just effect me. Things such as walking across campus with both my earbuds in. I should not get over my apprehensions of hurting or inconveniencing other people because I am called to love people. I can spite myself and work to overcome my own precognitions about how I think people judge me. I cannot spite others. I choose to work against my insecurities without working against myself or against other people. Effort put in against my insecurities or hardening myself towards everyone-including myself- will have the same result. Yet I choose effort and love for others.