TDBS3: Fierce Seduction

AUTHOR'S NOTE

The truth is, i wasn't planning on writing another TDBS. I want to focus on the Possessive Series. But i was watching a show last night and it was heart breaking to see that man suffer because of what happened to him. And after watching, i felt inspired to write and continue this series.

In TDBS, men here aren't perfect. They might have a perfect face but we don't know the demons they are fighting in their everyday life. 

In this series, i want to showcase some special illness that we encounter sometimes and i know, some of us laugh at them while judging them without knowing what they'd been through in life. In this series, i want to open your eyes to see these person as person to respect and not a laughing stock. 

It's sometimes funny to me when people ask for respect when they don't even respect the people around them. Respect is earned, they say, not given. And i believe that saying. So, please, when you know that person is sick and has mental illness, don't make fun of him/her. If you really can't help it, ask yourself this 'would i like it if they do this things to me?'. Always put yourself on someone else's shoes before you joke around to understand them better and to avoid conflict. 

Admit it...Its fun when it's us who's making fun of him/her, but trust me, it isn't fun when they are the one making fun of you.

I know this because i'd been in this kind of situation before. I don't have an illness but i have a very special part of my body (breast) and it always draws/steals attention because they're big. And you know what's humiliating? A group of college student looking at my breast and then they would murmur with each other while laughing and snickering like they're making fun of me. A lot of this happened to me. Male, female, gays and lesbian. They always looked at my breast when they passed me or when i passed them. And the same reaction all the time. It never changed. Sometimes, i even hear what they're saying about my breast, i just pretend that i don't. 

But as time goes by, i learn to accept that people really loves making fun of other people. It depends on you on how you would accept it and move on. Now i'm 25 years old and i accept my body, i don't feel humiliated anymore like i used too when they stare at me. It's what God has given to me and i should be thankful because there are many people in this world that has more problems and issues than mine. 

BTW...I hope you enjoy reading FIERCE SEDUCTION.