I observed that the basic motive for success is the driving force of envy and jealousy!
Ecclesiastes 4:4 ( LB )
The man without a purpose is like a ship without a rudder ~~ a waif, a nothing, a no man.
Everyone's life is driven by something.
Most dictionaries define the verb drive as "to guide, to control, or to direct." Whether you are driving a car, a nail, or a golf ball, you are guiding, controlling, and directing it at that moment. What is the driving force in your life?
Right now you may be driven by a problem, a pressure, or a deadline. You may be driven by a painful memory, a haunting fear, or an unconscious belief. There are hundreds of circumstances, values, and emotions that can drive your life. Here are five of the most common ones:
Many people are driven by guilt. They spend their entire lives running from regrets and hiding their shame. Guilt-driven people are manipulated by memories. They allow their past to control their future. They often unconsciously punish themselves by sabotaging their own success. When Cain sinned, his guilt disconnected him from God's presence, and God said, "You will be a restless wanderer on earth." That describes most people today —wandering through life without purpose.
We ate products of our past, but we don't have to be prisoners on it. God's purpose is not limited by your past. He turned a murderer named Moses into a leader and a coward named Gideon into a courageous hero, and He can do amazing things with the rest of your life, too. God specializes in giving people a fresh start. The Bible says, "What happeniss for those who guilt has forgiven! . . . What relief for those who have confessed their sins and God cleared their record."
Many people are driven by resentment and anger. They hold onto hurts and never get over them. Instead of releasing their pain through forgiveness, they rehearse it over and over in their minds. Some resentment-driven people "clam up" and internalize their anger, while others "blow up" and explode it onto others. Both responses are unhealthy and unhelpful.
Resentments only hurts you more than it does the person you resent. While your offender has forgotten the offense and gone on with the life, you continue to stew in your pain, perpetuating the past.
Listen: Those who have hurt you in the past cannot continue to hurt you now unless you hold on to the pain through resentment. Your past is past! Nothing will change it. You are only hurting yourself with your bitterness. For your own sake, learn from it and then let it go. The Bible says," To worry yourself with resentment would be a foolish, senseless thing to do."
Many people are driven by fear. Their fears maybe a result of traumatic experience, unrealistic expectations, growing up in a high-control home, or even genetic predisposition. Regardless of the cause, fear-driven people often miss great opportunities beause their afraid to venture out. Instead they play it safe, avoiding risks and trying to maintain the status quo.
Fear is a self-imposed prison that will keep from becoming what God intends for you to be. You must move against it with the weapons of faith and love. The Bible says," Well-formed love banishes fear. Since fear is crippling, a fear life —fear of death, fear of judgement—is one not yet fully formed in love."
Many people are driven by materialism. Their desire to acquire becomes the whole goal in their lives. This drive to always want more is based on the misconceptions that having more will make me more happy, more important, and more secure, but all three ideas are untrue. Possessions only provide temporary happiness. Because things do not change, we eventually become bored with them and then want newer, bigger , better visions.
It's also a myth that if I get more, I will be more important. Self-worth and net-worth are not the same. Your value is not determined by your valuables, and God says the more valuable things are not things!
The most common myth about money is that having more will make me more secure. It won't. Wealth can be lost instantly through a variety of uncontrollable factors. Real security can only be found in that which can never be taken from you—your relationship with God.
Many people are driven by the need of approval. They allow the expectations of parents or spouses or children or teachers or friends to control their lives. Many adults are still trying to earn the approval of unpleasable parents. Others are driven by peer preasure, always worries by what others might think. Unfortunately, those who follow the crowd usually get lost in it.
I don't know all the keys to success, but one key to failure is to try to please everyone. Being controlled by the opinion of others is a guaranteed way to miss God's purpose for your life. Jesus said, "No one can serve two masters."
There are other forces that can drive your life but all lead to the same dead end: unusual potential, unnecessary stress, and an unfulfillef life.
This forty-day journey will show you how to live a purpose-driven life— a life guided, controlled, and directed by God's purposes. NOTHING MATTERS MORE THAN KNOWING GOD'S PURPOSES FOR YOUR LIFE, AND NOTHING CAN COMPENSATE FOR NOT KNOWING THEM—not succes, wealth, fame or pleasure. Without a purpose, life is motion without meaning, activity without direction, and events without reason. Without a purpose, life is trivial, petty and pointless.
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THE PURPOSE DRIVEN LIFE - rick warrenNon-Fiction
This is from the book "The Purpose Drive Life" since few of my friends posted about this book naisip ko instead na tapusin ung gnagawa kong lesbian life story to nlng ang isusulat ko every day kada tapos kong basahin...hope magustuhan nyo to lalo na...