Pansexual

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Pansexual - not limited in sexual choice with regard to biological sex, gender, or gender identities

✜ Famous People That Are Pansexual ✜

↣ Laci Green

↣ Miley Cyrus

↣ Lady Gaga

As a person who is pansexual I think you don't have to rush through the thinking process. Pansexual is not a choose you make.

✜ A Couple Tips For Coming Out As Pansexual ✜

↣ Don't feel pressured to tell someone people are quite excepting of this

↣ Don't label yourself if you don't want to. Although you may feel ready to come out, you may not feel you fit any particular 'label'.

↣ Read inspirational stories

↣ Don't scared of what people have to say. From my experience people don't give a fuck if your pansexual, gay, lesbian, or whatever.

✰ INSPIRTATIONAL STORY ✰

Democrat Mary Gonzalez was the first lesbian to openly serve in the Texas House of Representatives, and now she's becoming the first "pansexual," too.

"During the campaign if I had identified as pansexual, I would have overwhelmed everyone...Now that I'm out of the campaign, I'm completely much more able to define it," she explained.

So what, exactly, is a "pansexual"?  And how is it different from "bisexual"?

The Huffington Post summarizes:

Though many might describe Gonzalez's orientation as bisexual, pansexuals don't believe in a "gender binary," and hence can be attracted to all gender identities.

Gonzalez specified to the Voice that she doesn't believe in a gender binary because "gender identity isn't the defining part of my attraction," and that she never fully embraced the term "lesbian." Although she came out as bisexual at age 21, Gonzalez said she has also dated transgender and "gender-queer" people, in addition to women.

Gonzalez... continued: "As I started to recognize the gender spectrum and dated along the gender spectrum, I was searching for words that connected to that reality, for words that embraced the spectrum. At the time I didn't feel as if the term bisexual was encompassing of a gender spectrum that I was dating and attracted to."  [Emphasis added]

As Gonzalez defines it, apparently a "pansexual" is attracted to men, women, men who identify as women, women who identify as men, and everything in between, because they don't recognize "gender binaries."

"This is a big victory for Mary, for El Paso and for Texas," said Chuck Wolfe, president and CEO of the Gay and Lesbian Victory Fund reportedly said.  "The people of El Paso will be represented by a talented and committed fighter who knows how to get things done in Austin. And LGBT Texans will be represented by an authentic voice in the Capitol, standing up and speaking out for fairness and freedom for all."

Denis Dison, a spokesperson for the Victory Fund, added that there are several bisexual U.S. Representatives and they should "inform the media and others about the term they prefer."

"That sort of education is a good thing," he said.



✰ INSPIRTATIONAL SONG ✰

"Let's Have A Kiki" By: Scissor Sisters

What's up? It's Pickles. Leave a message.
Hey, I'm calling you back.
Oooh, she's been a bitch tonight.
And by bitch I mean this rain; no cab, nowhere.
So I had to put on the wig, and the heels
And the lashes, and take the train, to the club
And you know the MTA should stand for:
Mother-fuckers Touching My Ass
So then I get to the club
Looking like a drowned, harassed rat
And I'm greeted, not by Miss Rose at the door
But our friend, Johnny Five-O
Yes honey, the NYPD shut down the party
No ? for me, I don't even know what's the tea
So I hope you're up girl
Because we are all coming over
Lock the doors, lower the blinds
Fire up the smoke machine and put on your heels
Cause I know exactly what we need
Let's have a kiki, I wanna have a kiki
Lock the doors, tight
Let's have a kiki, motherfucker
I'm gonna let you have it
Let's have a kiki
I wanna have a kiki
Dive, turn, work
Let's have a kiki
We're gonna serve, and work and turn
And h-h-honey
A kiki is a party, for calming all your nerves
We're spilling tea, and dishing just deserts when they deserve
And though the sun is rising, few may choose to leave
So...
Let's have a kiki, I wanna have a kiki
Lock the doors, tight
Let's have a kiki, motherfucker
I'm gonna let you have it
Let's have a kiki
I wanna have a kiki
Dive, , turn, work
Let's have a kiki
We're gonna serve, and work and turn
And h-h-honey
Oh, what a wonderful kiki
This kiki is marvelous
(Work it girl, very liberty, eww, you know girl
We were sitting back here just having a kiki)
Let's have a kiki, I wanna have a kiki
Lock the doors, tight
Let's have a kiki, motherfucker
I'm gonna let you have it
Let's have a kiki
I wanna have a kiki
Dive, turn, work
Let's have a kiki
We're gonna serve, and work and turn
And h-h-honey
Let's have a kiki, I wanna have a kiki
Lock the doors, tight
Let's have a kiki, hunty, drop her
I'm gonna let you have it
Let's have a kiki
I wanna have a kiki
Boots, turn, queen
Let's have a kiki
We're gonna serve, and work and turn
And h-h-honey
Songwriters: Ana Lynch / Jason Sellards / Scott Hoffman

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