stand up to bullies

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нow тo: ѕтand υp тo вυllιeѕ!
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⭐мaĸιng a мιllιon oғ ғrιendѕ ιѕ noт a мιracle. тнe мιracle ιѕ тo мaĸe a ғrιend wнo wιll ѕтand вy yoυ wнen мιllιonѕ are agaιnѕт yoυ!

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wнaт are вυllιeѕ?
вυllιeѕ are people wнo repeaтedly do ѕoмeтнιng тнaт нarмѕ yoυ ιn a way. ιғ a ĸιd jυѕт callѕ yoυ a naмe 1 тιмe, ιт'ѕ noт вυllyιng. вυт, ιғ нe callѕ yoυ a naмe ғor, leт'ѕ ѕay, тнree dayѕ ιn a row, тнaт'ѕ вυllyιng.
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нow тo ѕтand υp ғor yoυrѕelғ
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don'т pнyѕιcally ғιgнт вacĸ!
тнιѕ wιll geт yoυ ιn тroυвle ιғ yoυ нυrт тнe perѕon, even ιғ тнey ѕтarтed тнe ғιgнт. υѕιng ѕelғ-deғenѕe & ғιgнтιng are 2 dιғғerenт тнιngѕ.
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вe conғιdenт!
yoυ can υѕe нυмor agaιnѕт тнe вυlly. {ιe; вυlly: yoυ ѕтιnĸ! () yoυ: ιĸr, ι нaven'т ѕнowered ιn dayѕ} тнιѕ υѕυally lowerѕ тнeιr ѕelғ-conғιdence & тнey мιgнт вe caυgнт oғғ gυard. aғтer all, yoυ're ѕυppoѕed тo вe тнe vιcтιм, and wнen yoυ prove yoυ're noт вoтнered, тнe вυlly doeѕn'т ĸnow wнaт тo do. yoυ can jυѕт ғlaт-oυт тell тнeм тo ѕтop, and aѕĸ тнeм wнy тнey're вυllyιng yoυ ιғ yoυ don'т wanт тo υѕe нυмor.
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walĸ away!
ιғ yoυ're ιn a very dangeroυѕ or υncoмғorтaвle ѕιтυaтιon, тнen jυѕт ғlaт-oυт walĸ away. ғιnd an adυlт/ѕoмeone yoυ тrυѕт. do noт ĸeep ιт тo yoυrѕelғ! тнιѕ coυld вe dangeroυѕ ιғ тнe вυlly wanтѕ тo ĸeep тargeтιng yoυ.
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нow тo ѕтΑnd υp ғor ғrιendѕ
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don'т вe a вyѕтander!
вyѕтanderѕ are ppl wнo wιтneѕѕ вυllyιng вυт don'т do anyтнιng aвoυт ιт. ιғ yoυ ѕee ѕoмeone geт вυllιed, тell тнeм тo ѕтop. ιғ тнaт doeѕn'т worĸ, geт an adυlт. don'т worry, тнιѕ ιѕ noт ѕnιтcнιng. yoυ coυld ѕave ѕoмeone'ѕ нealтн вy geттιng an adυlт!
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deғend тнeм wιтн wordѕ!
ιғ тнe вυlly ιѕ тaυnтιng yoυr ғrιend repeaтedly, тнen ѕтand υp вy тellιng тнe вυlly тнaт wнaтever тнey ѕay ιѕ noт тrυe and тнaт тнey're jυѕт тryιng тo geт aттenтιon.
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вυllιeѕ вυlly вc ιт мaĸeѕ тнeм ғeel вeттer or мore powerғυl aвoυт тнeмѕelveѕ, or мayвe вecaυѕe тнey're вυllιed aт нoмe. yoυ coυld ѕтop a вυlly вy aѕĸιng wнy тнey're doιng тнιѕ ιn a ĸιnd тone.
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