So... I post a story on my Instagram.
I don't mention his name because I don't want to spread hate on him. So basically... during my time in my previous university. He's the one who's been close to me. I even see him as a younger brother figure.
Then as my old readers know, something happened and I went "missing" for a few months. When it is actually to calm myself down after a traumatic event.
I came back being active on my social account after about 8 months. Then he start bombarding me with chats. Saying how much he misses me... how much he wishes to see me, and so on. But after that... he ignored me.
Then as you also know... I've published an English novel, and that made me the first English writer here in my hometown. After that he came back and said congrats and such. As much as a nice person I am... as that's what most of you said. I won't tolerate a person who's only present in my life after I achieve something, because that is exactly how people take advantage on you. Trust me... I learnt that the hard way.
So after I posted that story in my Instagram. He chat me...
Then he thinks he have the audacity to say he "tried to be nice"? When I've been trying to chat him. He's the one ignoring me. Now he's the one acting as if I'm the one who ignored him?? Nah ah... not going to happen.
This happens to me once back in High School as well. A so-called friend of mine... who is a girl. Kept bullying me... asking me for money... and used me for her study. Then she go around saying as if I'm the one who did all that to her.
After that all the students in that school hated me. But not for long as the teachers is on my side and told them the truth. That girl was dropped out of school, because apparently... I'm not the only victim.
Now it's happening again. But no... I won't let this goes too far. That's why I'm here telling you guys this... so in case someone made a false rumor about me... and it reaches you guys... you'll all know who to trust.
But seriously, this is why I don't really like having friends. Well... with the people around me. I'm happy to have you guys as you are and will forever be my greatest treasures.
Anyway... back to not wanting to have friends. I don't wanna be friends with them, because they only wants to be around me because they need something from me. Then leave after they've accomplished their desires. Now they're coming back after I achieve something.
For those of you who experienced the same. NEVER welcome those people in your life. People like them only knows how to use you. They aren't real friends and they will NEVER be a real friend. Even if they come to you with those teary and begging eyes. Don't trust them... as those are crocodile tears. Believe me... I know. I have the WHOLE class acting that way to me.
That's why I don't associate with people. Simply because I'm just protecting myself from fake people like them. I hope you guys will too... don't let anyone thinks they can use you... once they use you... you'll be their daily tools. Stand strong... and learn to say no. I know you guys are nice people... but you need to differentiate who deserve to be treated nicely and who doesn't. Those fake friends certainly belongs to the NO category. So once again... DON'T welcome fake friends.