Hi, i'm omi. i'd just read this somewhere n wanted to share this. Dont get serious, its just for fun!


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Top 10 First Year Goof Ups



The First Year Of A Romantic Relationship Carries A Lot Of Power. By The End Of That Year, The Tenor Of Your Relationship Is Established. Here Are The Ten Biggest Mistakes Boys Make In The Most Critical Year Of A Relationship.



1 You Shower Her With Gifts

Many Men Equate Spending Money On A Woman With Making Him Like Her More. Buying Her, Many, Often Expensive, Presents Or Getting Her Something For Every Occasion, On Matter How Trivial, Is A Deadly Mistake. It Suggest That A Man Has Little To Offer Other Than What's In His Checking Account. Worse Still, The Woman May Begin To Expect Gifts From Him All The Time. Close Your Wallet And Give Her Something Priceless: Yourself.

2 You Spend All The Free Time With Her

There Are Two Major Dangers With This One. First, You Forego Your Social Life, Which You Need To Maintain For Your Own Well-Being. If You Don't See Your Buddies Anymore, You Should Be Worried. Remember; They May Not Stick Around Forever. Second, You Smother Her Own Personal Time, Which She Also Values. This Formula Will Easily Make You Sick Of Each Other.

3 You Let Her Make All The Plans

Not Only Women Dislike Men Who Can't Take Initiative, They Actually Hate Taking It Themselves. Shirking All The Decisions Does Not Emit Respect Or Easy-Going Attitude. It Shows Lack Of Back Bone. Go Ahead And Choose What To Eat, Where You'll Go And What You'll Wear. There's A Fine Line Between Compromise And Indecisiveness. Learn To Say No Sometimes. Maybe You Want To Spare Her Feelings; Maybe You Want To Avoid Her Wrath; But Both Are Poor Excuse To Become A Pushover. If You Disagree With Something, You Have To Tell Her. If You Don't Like Something,, It's Not Right For You To Take It.

4 You Meet Friends And Family Early On

Its Unavoidable|: Whenever You Meet Her Friends Or Family, Your Every Breath, Move And Word Will Be Under Close Scrutiny. It's A Mistake To Get To Know Those Close To Her Before You Know Her Well Enough. Establish A Comfortable Rapport With Her First, And You'll Be M0re At Ease When You Meet Them. Just As Important, Don't Let The Friends And Family Influence Your Relationship. Let Them Learn To Like You In Time.

5 You Don't Come Clean About Your Past

Whatever Skeletons You're Hiding, They'll Come Out Sooner Or Later. You Should Tell Her Of Ant Addictions You Have Had Or Still Have, If You've Been Married And So Forth. Granted, This Doesn't All Need To Be Revealed At Once.

6 You Avoid Confrontation

Communication Is Often The Solution To Solving Problems, So If You Avoid Talking About Them, They'll Only Get Bigger. A Small Argument Now Is Much Better Than Painful Fight Later. Avoiding Confrontation Also Means Agreeing Dismissively But Not Sticking To Your Word. For Instance, If She Says," Don't Mess The Place Up," And You Say," Okay", Mean It.

7 You Take Her For Granted

In Order To Keep The Glow Of Relationship Alive, Seduction Needs To Be A Life-Long Effort. One Of The Biggest Traps Men Fall Into Is Getting Too Comfortable With A Woman. You Stop Taking Her Out On Dates. You No Longer Care About Your Appearance. You Stop Being Attentive; Ignoring Details About Her And Missing Important Things She May Say In Passing.

8 You Always Initiate Sex

A Man Should Show Initiative Chiefly Outside The Bedroom. When It Comes To Sex, It Should Be An Equal Game. Don't Let Burden Of Starting Sex Fall Entirely On You. She May Even Discover A Side Of Hers She Never Knew She Had, And Enrich Your Sex Lives That Much More.

9 You Forgive All Her Mistakes Easily

She Tires To Be On Her Best Behavior During Her First Year Together. She'll Get Used To Them, Or Worse Yet, Make Them More Grating. If Anything She Does Makes You Uncomfortable, Communicate Clearly. If You Sweep It All Under The Rug. It'll Blow Up Eventually.

10 You Tell Her You Love Her Too Soon And Too Often

These Three Little Words Demand A Prodigious Amount Of Frugality, Lest They Become Meaningless. Tes, Women Long Hear It All The Time, But Its Overuse Will Jade Even The Most Demanding Of Romantics. Save It For Very Rare Occasions; Make Her Beg For Them. And Only Say Them When You Really, Really Mean It.

-Omi