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Dating Ideas
Asking Someone Out on a Date
If you like someone and want to know them more, you may have to ask them for a date. This is a standard practice for men, and it is increasingly becoming common among women. If you have someone in mind that you would love to go out with, breathe deeply and follow these guidelines.

Ask yourself first - Know why you are asking them out and if it is for the right reasons. Recognize your expectations as a result of them saying yes or no.

Saying no is a possibility - Be prepared that the person you ask may say no. If this happens, do not take the rejection personally and do not chase them as well. They maybe thinking of things and get back to you with a "yes" later.

Choose the right moment - See to it that the person you are asking is in a light mood. At certain instances, do not approach them when they are stressed out after work, while eating, or while with a group of friends.

Practice what you should say - Don't think of the cheesiest pick-up line imaginable. A simple "Hi! My name is...and I was wondering if you are free for lunch today?" is enough. Practice what you might say in advance so that you don't appear tongue-tied.

Avoid asking them out while drunk - You may think that taking a shot before asking would boost your courage level, actually it's not. It would backfire, too.

Prepare the place, date, and time, in advance - Before asking them out, be sure that you already have an idea where and when your date would be, just in case they say yes. In this way, you are showing that you are thoughtful.

Create a sense of trust immediately - If the person asks you why you want to date them, flatter about his or her personality. People can be wary and may want to know some reason behind your request. You can say, "I have always thought you are great fun..."

Do not pressure them into saying yes - If they want to think about it, let them. But don't chase.

Smile - Bring out your positive personality. Be confident and happy to elicit a far more positive response.

Prepare for an alternative schedule - If they are unsure about their schedule, or your proposed date schedule conflicts theirs, provide a different date and time or location.

Intend to go on your date - Standing people up is a definite no-no in dating.



First Date Creative Ideas

In dating, the first few dates should be the most enjoyable because this is where you are building that first impression. The following suggestions on putting an added pizazz on the first date should come in handy.

An element of surprise - When inviting your date for a second date, don't tell him or her where you are going. Instead, try blindfolding your partner until you reach the surprise destination, such as a picnic laid out for two in a park or a living strewn with rose petals. This not only tickles your lover's fancy but also adds an air of excitement to the date.

Get quirky - Dating is not limited to renting a video and falling into bed, or eating at the same restaurant everyday. Think of ways to entertain your lover such as renting costumes and holding your own theme night, complete with food in your apartment, or try taking up dance lessons.

Emphasize on mutual interest - Try to remember which interests brought you together in the first place. It's not fun to watch a football match if your girlfriend who is with you is completely bored watching the game. If you are both interested in art, then try something artistic and fun like pottery. If you love animals, how about a trip to a zoo?



Meeting New People



Finding a date basically starts with meeting new and interesting people, and in doing so you have to get out and make yourself available to new acquaintances. It's highly unlikely that you would find a hot date while sitting on your couch watching TV or playing video games. Problem is, meeting new people is a battle between confidence and shyness. If you really want to start meeting some new people, try making an effort to go out often.

Aside from going out of the house, here are eight more ways in meeting up with new people, and possibly a new date.

Go to a place that interests you - If you enjoy reading, try visiting the local library. If you are into physical sports, consider a sporting goods store. If you like art, then going to a museum is for you. In doing so, you are most likely see people with the same interest as yours. If you found a hot prospect-like a reader planning to borrow a book that you've read or when someone is having a hard time choosing the right running store-be bold and approach them. Use your knowledge of the interest as your conversation icebreaker.