The Rejection Report
Richard La Ruina (AKA Gambler)
Richard La Ruina, AKA Gambler, is a london-based PUA. His
company, PUA Training is a worldwide leader in seduction
coaching and training. To date, Richard has trained thousands
of men live, in the field, on his bootcamps and has reached
hundreds of thousands more through his newsletter and
home study programs. His paperback book, The Natural Art
of Seduction is an Amazon Best Seller in the UK and he has
made appearances on nearly every major channel in the UK.
Who is 'Gambler'?
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99% Of PUA's Fail Because
Consciously or Unconsciously
They Are Afraid Of Rejection....
And the answer the seduction community
has given to them?
"Grow a thick skin....Get Rejected More...Pickup is a
Numbers Game!"
Yeah...right.
Three years ago I decided to search for a different answer.
I began asking myself a question that would go on to change
the way I played the game forever.
And that question was this:
What if it was possible to seduce the world's hottest women
without even the slightest chance of getting rejected?
This report tells the story of my search for the answer to this
question...my search for the 'holy grail of seduction'...and
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reveals for the first time the shocking discoveries that I made
along my journey.
So lock your door, shut off the cell phone, and read every
word of this report, because the secrets you are about to
absorb have the power to change your game.
It was early 2007...And I was a
few months into teaching my
infield bootcamps....
The programs were top-notch.
I was teaching guys my most advanced material at the time,
the really powerful stuff that was literally landing modelcaliber
women into my bed nightly.
During the day-time portion of the programs, I would forcefeed
the students my PUA knowledge, and then at night
I'd demonstrate the tactics and techniques in the toughest
scenarios possible: My students would see me open a mixed
five set on the dance floor, pull the hottest girl away for a
make out.
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Then afterward, I'd debrief them on what happened, break it
all down for them and then supervise as they went in for their
own sets.
The result?
Student success was phenomenal. Far beyond anything I'd
ever seen or heard about in the community. Each weekend on a
course of 10 guys I'd have one or two guys getting laid, a whole
bunch getting make outs and nearly everyone getting numbers.
But you know what?
To me..
Something Just Didn't Seem Right
Because for every guy that came on the program and got
laid, there were 6 or 7 guys who were just making 'average'
progress and to me, that wasn't enough. So I really started to
think....what the heck was going on?
I talked with the students, analyzed the commonalities and
differences between the guys who weren't making the
progresses and the guys who were...and I racked my brain.
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After weeks of thinking, it hit me...
Some guys were just flat out SCARED to approach. We could
push them into set with the best material we had, stuff that
worked at least 80% of the time, even on the hottest of girls, but
after the program they just couldn't get themselves to approach.
Others guys could go in to the set, hook the interaction, get
attraction and get the girls laughing, but when it came time
to up the ante and begin even the slightest bits of sexual
escalation, they would freeze up. I'd talk with them and ask
them after the set "what happened there?" and they'd reply
the same way pretty much every time..."Rich, they were loving
me, I didn't want to blow it"
And still there was yet another group of students as well.
These were the guys who could spend 5 hours with a girl
building really deep rapport, sparking sexual attraction, and
even getting intensely physical...but when the end of the
night would come, they'd come away with nothing more than
maybe a flakey number.
On the surface, all of these situations seemed different from
one another. But beneath all of their struggles laid the same
exact problem.
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They Were All Scared Of Rejection
How could it be? I'd given them literally the best tools
available. My method at the time was a hybrid of the best
the seduction community had to offer, with a few twists of my
own, implemented to smooth out the problems that existed
in the material that had preceded me.
But then it occurred to me. ...
The method wasn't 100%. No method was.
There was a certain degree of uncertainty to all of it.