hey all you luvely gurls out there!, so this is a just an idea i came up with because my brother is always helping me out with guys and he basically explains to me what guys find hot and not, and what guys think etc the lost goes on, so i have tried to organise my chaotic thoughts and pulled them into this chapter but if its liked i will write more bcuz i have plenty to say.
My resources are- my brother and his friends, experience and about 25 mags about teen life (yes this includes boys duh)
Feel free to ask questions or ask for help on your own boy issues- i will research the correct answer for you by passing everything (as you would prefer- tell me if you dnt want me to ask him) on to my dear brother and if he doesnt no, i wil questionaire his poor friends (see how far i can push them) and read through all my mags until i find the right answer. garantee.
so pls tell me wat u think of this or i will delete it :P hehehe
The Inner Thoughts and Interests of Boys
Your Official Guide to 'Getting' Him; Mentally and Physically
My brother and I. We fight, yes, but we talk too and we talk about boys and girls and our current love interests. I realised something the other day, though maybe it’s just my brother and he isn’t like most guys (runs in the family?), but guys over think things way too much and I know what you’re thinking, we do that too, us girls are the ones known for over thinking but no, my brother is worse, knows less about girls than a new born.
The funny thing about my brother is that he is great, girls love him but are unsure of him because he isn’t a jerk. We expect guys to be jerks and therefore when they aren’t we don’t trust them for being too nice or too charming because it all sounds too good to be true but put it aside- he might just be a great guy.
So before you start laughing at him for saying the wrong thing or doing something embarrassing, think about what you would feel if you were in his shoes and your current crush was laughing at something you did that was meant to impress him. People are selfish, something happens to someone and they are hurt, it’s consider nothing and they are just wuses but when that something happens to you the world should turn around and kiss your feet. But enough about that I would like to help you guys out with the info my bro helps me out with and imam pass it on to you as it lands on my door step.
A totally necessary rule no 1
I know some girls who are butt ugly but confident and they can’t get guys off them. I know weird huh but it’s true. Guys love girls who know themselves and know what they are going to do and how.
Think about it from your own eyes, perspective- would you date a guy who can’t shut up about how bad his life is and how everyone should feel sorry for him, and the fact that no girl will ever love him because he has acne or he’s ‘fat’ or his hair is styled like Justin Beibers but the girls still don’t jump into his arms at a single flick of his head. Guys have it just as hard as us girls and we try to make it hard for them too but usually in the wrong way.
Think about it and explore different perspectives.
Now I know he is just divine and it’s hard to not drool over him but have some dignity girl and whole your head high! Be proud of who you are! And I know that sounds cliché but man it is so true.